If you want to be successful in the cougar game, you need to know exactly what you’re doing. Unlike younger girls, cougars aren’t going to fall at your feet because you’ve used a cheesy pickup line or because you have 5k followers on Instagram. You need to come up to her level when you’re hitting on her. Follow these pieces of advice and you’ll bag yourself a hot cougar in no time.
Cougars are experienced in the art of seduction. They’ve heard every single chat up line under the sun. You’re definitely not the first guy in the world to hit on her, so don’t pretend like you are. Be direct with her. Tell her you think she’s beautiful and that you’d love to show her a good time. As long as you keep it classy, elegant and respectful, she’ll happily welcome your advances. She wants sex just as much as you do, so there’s no point playing unnecessary games with each other.
Don’t limit yourself to bars and clubs
Cougars don’t just exist between the hours of clubs and bars being open. They have ordinary lives too. There are a million places to meet them – you just need to be on the prowl at all times. Supermarkets, libraries, waiting for the train, hell, even your workplace. Sometimes, hitting on a woman outside of the bar and club scene can be a great advantage. You can get much more natural conversation going without the interruption of music or other people trying to hit on her.
Don’t impress her with money
This might be one of the most important rules in the game: flashing the cash at a cougar won’t yield results. They probably have more than enough money of their own. Also, she’s probably dated someone who earns ten times more than you do, so trying to impress her with money is futile and could potentially make you look stupid. Cougars aren’t concerned with your financial situation, they’re looking for someone they can connect with in the short-term. Focus on impressing her with your style, sense of humor and assertiveness.
Keep conversation interesting
Most cougars have probably been on enough boring dates to last a lifetime; dates which are littered with mundane conversation about the weather, TV and what she does for a living. She doesn’t want to hear that from someone she’s just met, nor does she want to spill her life story to a stranger. Make sure to hold her attention and don’t just talk at her; give her time to breathe and ask questions which aren’t too personal. Gradually escalate the attraction until you’re confident there’s a spark between you.
It’s all about the confidence
This point can’t be over-stated: confidence is the most important thing when attracting a cougar. It shows that you’re comfortable in who you are, as well as being an assertive, mature guy who knows what he wants. It shows you’re her equal, and that’s what they’re looking for. As long as you look sharp, keep up positive body language and keep her intrigued – you won’t have a problem convincing her to come back to your place.
When you’re on the hunt for cougars, keep the above tips in mind and you’ll find your chances of success will be much higher. Happy hunting!
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